How To Keep The Conversation Going With Women

If there's one 'social-life destroying' problem that most guys faceother than how to approach women, it's... ... keeping a conversation going after you approach.

You may even seen or experience the following 'live' before youreyes - guy starts a conversation with a gal with a great strongline. But in a while, the conversation is plagued with awkwardpauses or 10 second long quiet breaks.

Typically, such a scene will drag on abit. Then, either the guy orgal will use the "see you around" exit to cushion any morequietness.

OK, let's see what can be done to prevent such a scene.

Understand this, keeping a conversation going is NOT limited to thefirst time when you meet a lady. It's an art that has to be sharpened when you're out with any women on future dates.

You'd be lucky if the gal herself has tons to talk about but... is that always the case? Nope. You're bound to encounter some gals who require you to lead the conversation first and gradually warm up to you. So here aresome "silver bullets" as a backup in the event you sense a quiet air coming. I 'm taking into account some topics in the past that surfaced when I had engaging conversations with women. Plus, almost without fail, all the men I knew who are good with women always have some topics loaded in their brains.

These include (but NOT limited to):

- Get her to talk about which country she's fly to in the past. It's used just the way it is, just say "Which country have you been to in the past?"Let her talk. Stretch further by asking her what are those places/the people there like. Discover which places she'd like to go in future. (It's no sin to be curious) Then tell her where you personally have travelled to. At this point, she's gradually warmed up and will ask you in return about those places you've been to.

- A versatile topic. Ask her which movie had she watched this year. Which is the best one she thinks. Which sucked. Talk about your own thoughts. From there, you can springboard to a sub-topic of who she thinks is her fave actor/actress.

- In this case, it's a "What did you do last Christmas?" topic. One variation is "Where did you go to celebrate during new year'seve last year?" Gal's answers range from celebration at friend's place, stayed athome, went partying, got drunk etc. Bear in mind there're always things to continue from there. Let her elaborate. Share your own story of what you did then. I can go on and on but these topics/sub-topics are just a few"emergency" backups in case you sense silences coming.

1st point to Note: The above is NOT the only path to maintain conversations. Use them first but there are other ways to make a dialogue "re-generative"... where conversations take on a life of it's own and fresh topics automatically spawn.

2nd Point to Note: It's useless to continue talking and talking. While keeping conversations going with women, you have to ATTRACT them. The key is to talk AND attract. It'll take an entire module to cover that (check the section belowfor that). For now, another tip to know how to keep conversation going is to eavesdrop on people (preferably strangers) while they are engaged in a dialogue. That's right, be a practical student of interactions.

Listen to two people (can be 2 girls, one guy one gal etc), notice what gets both of them hooked when they're talking. You'll defintely obtain clues as to what makes a conversation indulging. Study these clues, refine and use it for yourself.