3 Short Words Will Change Your Dating Life...

Yes I'm aware... the topic sounds fishy, as though somebody'swhispering in your ear "Hey, chant these words and you can live to3000 years old!"

But hear me out for a second. In my life, I've met a number of men. Their outer appearance rangefrom ordinary to 'icky'... Yet, these men happen to BE WITH stunningly beautiful women that other guys would stare at more than once. Thing is, it didn't make sense to me years back. My mind tried to solve -"There must be ONE point of time where these men fearlessly make aFIRST CONTACT with the lady they're eventually with. But how did they do it despite their 'limitations'?"And so began my process of making friends and talking to these dudes. I wanted get ideas straight from the horse's mouth.

Here's the fun part... if you've carried out such investigations as I have, you can't help but notice such men... seem to follow a very different set of 'personal rules'. One of which is - they constantly have a "Nothing to lose" rule when it comes to interacting with and dating women.

It's been years but I recalled one of these men say (and the phrase is still kept in my journal), "People with nothing to lose are theones who win more than the rest."That was how it all began to make sense where men without the gift of good looks can "outperform" guys who have better features (and deeper pockets) when it comes to meeting and dating the ladies. It's all about NOT putting weight on any interaction with women. NOT thinking you may lose anything. So these are the 3 words... "Nothing to lose". N.T.L

Simple few words but "lethal".As a drill, carry out a full-scale "N.T.L War" against your ownmind. Name a list of things you THINK you might lose if you were togo up and talk to a woman... or getting a lady out (it'll probablybe less than 3 things. If it's more than 3... you probably worry too much). Question the list of things. It's likely you'll find some of them NOT being a big deal after all. Strike these off. As for those remaining, ask yourself what is required to counter each of them? Then go get the necessary stuff and counter.Carry out this "Nothing to lose" drill and see how your mind startsto let loose. Encounters with women are defintely more enjoyablefrom here on.