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Friday, August 17, 2007

A Small Mistake In Getting A Lady's Number...

Too many incidents happened to guys where they pocketed a woman'sphone number... but attempts to get her out after that don't workout well. That includes:- Smsing her and getting zero replies- Calling her and nobody picks up.- She does answer the phone but quickly says "Hey, I'm in ameeting, can't talk now."It's definitely NOT a good feeling. Fact is, it happens often and guys can't help but wonder "Why does she bother giving me her number only to throw such cold responses afterward???" Still, the responsiblity of such an outcome lies more with the male than the female.

What's identified is... usually, after the male gets a gal's number, he bids her goodbye and leaves immediately. This makes him come across to the lady as the dude who "got what he wanted and run."More importantly, the lady begins to wonder... "Did I just looklike one of those girls who give away numbers easily?"... thereforeshe has to 'self protect' by making it not as easy for the guy to get her out when he calls or sms.

The solution? After pocketing a lady's number, chat a while more before leaving. Just one to three minutes will do... it makes a load of difference. This eliminates the thought in her mind that you're one of those guys who bags her number and grin "So long, sucker!". Example: (After exchanging numbers) you say, "We'll keep in touch.By the way, you mentioned just now that you went to Mayday Concertlast week. How was it?" Just chat a little more.The key idea is to - refer back to something from the conversation you had with her. Don't just speed off immediately.

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